Three Objectives of Divorce Rescue

There are three objectives with this radio talk show called “Divorce Rescue”.

The first objective is to prevent divorce and to help couples change their perspective about their current troubles. Every pastor is stunned by the number of couples in their church who divorce. Few realize that in four out of five divorces, one spouse does not want the divorce, but is forced to accept it because the law grants every divorce, shattering the lives of children. Nine out of ten couples, if they stayed together would be happy in five years. Instead, the quickness and ease of the divorce process eliminates reconciliation. We will also focus on the behaviors and self-defeating games, and other family dynamics that encourage the divorce process to finish preventing reconciliation.

The second objective is for “Divorce Rescue” to focus on how to change the divorce process—and change the laws that govern divorce. The catastrophe called divorce is encouraged by laws which have instituted “no-fault” divorce. When it is easier to get out of a marriage, then a car loan something is wrong. Instead, when the selfish acts of one parent, who is “unhappy” or “unfulfilled”, divorces the other parent, that parent ensures that the innocent children grow up in a broken home. If politicians focused the same amount of time and money they do in debating same-sex marriage on the issue of preventing marriages from breaking, millions of our children will grow up happier, healthier, and more successful. Same sex marriages aren’t a threat to the sanctity of marriage, divorce is the major threat. Polls reveal that by a margin of 2-1, Americans believe that divorce should “be harder than it is now for married couples with young children to get a civil divorce (61% to 35%). Only 44% of the children in America live with both parents.

Third, the purpose of “Divorce Rescue” is to network families in conflict with third parties such as ministers, counselors and training classes, lawyers, and former judges that can provide meaningful feedback to parents that can prevent divorce-- so that the people facing conflict do not feel alone. These resources can just not prevent divorce, but can also rebuild the family unit after divorce and effectively help parents learn to co-parent. Terms that our used in divorce, such as custody and visitation are terms more appropriate for jail, not family relationships. The radio show provides parents in conflict with a chance to talk, learn, and simply share frustrations. The radio show provides spiritual assistance, helping people in conflict realize that they will receive support and prayer to help bring light to the darkness of conflict. Divorces are spiritual battles, more than legal battles. Man’s laws encourage divorce, while God’s laws and scripture prevent divorce. In the cases of families that have divorced, scriptural principles allow for effective co-parenting. If divorce is touching your life, or the lives of friends or family, or you are rebuilding your family after divorce, please help us in the war to rebuild America through broken families, call and participate actively with the radio show, so that others realize they are not alone. This is a ministry and we need all the help we can get. Let’s bring some light to the darkness and help people under attack realize they are not alone.